A Creative Way to Assess Your Values and Priorities

Working as a life strategies coach in New Jersey requires a lot of flexibility. Unlike some professions, where there is a clear “good,” “bad,” “right,” or “wrong” way to go about doing things, life coaching is all about helping you to be the best you can be in your life—and this looks different for everyone. One of the first tasks I start off with in many cases is helping clients to understand their values and priorities. Many people come in not knowing themselves very well, and though coaching, they can find out how to do this better. Today, I’ll share a creative way that you can assess your values and priorities, often called the Johari Window.

The Johari Window
This technique is popular in psychology, social work, life coaching, organizational consulting, and more, and for great reason! It is simple, fun, and can be creative. The technique was developed back in the mid-1900’s by psychologists, and helps to make values and priorities clear.

How it Works
The process is simple. Draw a box and divide it into four parts, like a window pane. You will have two panels across and two going down for a total of four. On the top is yourself; on the side is others. The first box is “known,” the rest are “unknown.” By combining, you will find that the top-left corner represents those things that are known to yourself and to others, sometimes called the “public arena”; the top-right corner represents those things are not known to yourself, but known to others, otherwise known as your “blind spot”; the lower left-hand corner is known to yourself, but not known to others, representing your “hidden self”; and the lower right-hand corner is not known to yourself or others—this is a big mystery! After drawing your grid, fill in the corresponding values and priorities. The lower left-hand corner is often represented simply with a question mark, indicating that you don’t know it yet. This represents your future growth and hidden motivations.

What it Means
The exercise is the most important part of this task, as it encourages you to think through the various levels of “knowing” and reflect on how you see yourself, as well as how you think others see you. You can use this information to plan your future, take the next step, or move forward past something that is hindering you. Need more help? Set up an appointment with a skilled life coach in New Jersey for personalized assistance and life coaching.

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